Friday, December 13, 2024

The Gift of Forgiveness

 



In the midst of global political and economic upheaval, people are struggling, trying to find a way to still celebrate the holiday season. The entire year has been challenging and even as it wraps up, it still shows no sign of letting up on the relentless assault on our lives.

For centuries, people of various faiths and religious beliefs have furiously battled over the appropriate way to deal with the holiday season. Even within Christianity there are debates about the way December 25th should be celebrated, or if it should be celebrated at all.

In the first two blogs of this series, we started discussing the controversies surrounding various December 25th celebrations and traditions; and how we, as Believers, must stop merely REACTING to the negative origins of this date and begin making a wise RESPONSE to this season.

We are offering at least Five Godly Responses to December 25th.

So far we have presented two responses:
#1: Become All Things to All Men from 1 Corinthians 9:18-23 (NKJV)
#2: Don’t cause your brother to stumble from 1 Corinthians 8:9-13 (NKJV)


This week we’re offering response #3 - Use the opportunity (holiday) to love, bless, do good and pray for your enemies, cursers, haters and persecutors. 

Many people are giving in to the pressure to buy gifts and they’re going to run up huge credit card bills to do it. Recently, we saw a celebrity on a talk show and he said the only thing he asked his family and friends to give him was a gift that doesn’t cost any money. So he simply asked for a letter, a poem, a song, a phone call, etc. It is truly amazing how one of the richest people in America has a request for the most important things in life. Meanwhile, many of the poorest people in America will try to spend money.

We plan to enjoy the holiday by spending time with family. We are focusing on our relationships; even the relationships that are not doing so well. We encourage you to do the same.

In Matthew 5:43-45 (NKJV), Jesus said: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust."

This may seem radical, but we believe that we can use this holiday season as an opportunity to bless those who are our enemies. Jesus actually tells us to bless those who curse us.

What a marvelous time to do something so completely unexpected that it truly personifies what it means to be a child of our Father in heaven. Just like HE provides sunshine and rain (and rain was a wonderful thing for their agriculturally-based society) to evil and good people, we can express His goodness and mercy in a tangible way as well.

For many of us, we don’t have to think too hard to come up with a name or two of people whom we could bless in this way. Many people will be scrambling through shopping malls trying to find the perfect gift for someone who is very special to them. But what if we include in our lists, a couple of people who don’t like us very much?

In these harsh economic times, millions of people don’t have very much money for purchasing gifts and December 25th has become more of a burden of obligation than a time of celebration. However, we encourage you to consider those who spitefully used you or even persecuted you. It might be something as simple as sending a Christmas card or extending an invitation to dinner.

One year the Holy Spirit showed me that I had buried unforgiveness regarding a childhood bully. Just mentioning his name brought up old feelings of anger and resentment. So the Lord impressed upon me to start the cleansing process by sending a Christmas card with a letter. It was to be the first step in blessing someone who persecuted me long ago.

What names and faces come into your thoughts as you consider this Godly response? Don’t hesitate. Take advantage of this holiday season to respond like a child of God. Give the gift of forgiveness.

We're Building People!

Friday, December 6, 2024

A Matter of Conscience


In the midst of global political and economic upheaval, people are struggling, trying to find a way to still celebrate the holiday season. The entire year has been challenging and even as it wraps up, it still shows no sign of letting up on the relentless assault on our lives.

In years past, people of various faiths and religious beliefs have furiously battled over the appropriate way to deal with the holiday season. Even within Christianity there are debates about the way December 25th should be celebrated, or if it should be celebrated at all.


In the last blog, we began discussing some of the controversies surrounding December 25th and how we, as Believers, can stop merely REACTING to the negative origins of this date and begin making wise RESPONSES to this season.

We are offering at least Five Godly Responses to December 25th.

Last week we presented response #1: Become All Things to All Men, according to 1 Corinthians 9:18-23.

This week we offer response #2: Don’t cause your brother to stumble - 1 Corinthians 8:4-13 (NKJV)

In his first letter to the church in Corinth, Paul was dealing with a matter that was very similar to the controversial December 25th issues. Some Believers were participating in the practice of eating food that was offered to idols. They didn’t feel restricted because they knew that the idols were not real gods and they also knew that what goes into a person is not what defiles them.

It’s the same for Christian Believers today who participate in modern December 25th rituals that have proven historical foundation in idol worship (The sun god and a season known as Saturnalia). They feel, just as those early Believers to whom Paul had written, that they are free in Christ Jesus. Therefore, they have no problem with celebrating December 25th with some of the pagan mixtures. 


Many educated Believers know that Christmas was started as something that was seperate from Saturnalia and sun god celebrations, but a lot of those pagan rituals became mixed in with the celebration of Christ; even confusing December 25th as Christ's date of birth, when it was actually a celebration of His coming to save mankind, not a commemoration of the day He was born.

However, Paul admonished those early Believers to not allow their freedom to cause another brother to stumble. He explained that due to his brother's conscience, he did not have internal permission to participate in that practice of eating food offered to idols.

If another Believer is struggling with our practices, it may wound their conscience. Paul actually says that we sin against our brother and Christ. The sin is not the practice itself, but it is in how the participation affects our brothers.

Let’s read the letter: “Therefore concerning the eating of things offered to idols, we know that an idol is nothing in the world, and that there is no other God but one. For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as there are many gods and many lords), yet for us there is one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we for Him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, through whom are all things, and through whom we live.

However, there is not in everyone that knowledge; for some, with consciousness of the idol, until now eat it as a thing offered to an idol; and their conscience, being weak, is defiled. But food does not commend us to God; for neither if we eat are we the better, nor if we do not eat are we the worse.

But beware lest somehow this liberty of yours become a stumbling block to those who are weak. For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol’s temple, will not the conscience of him who is weak be emboldened to eat those things offered to idols? And because of your knowledge shall the weak brother perish, for whom Christ died? But when you thus sin against the brethren, and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ. Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never again eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble.”


We realize that even though there are many things that are okay for Chris and Carol to do, as Spiritual Wellness coaches and ministers in this community, they are not always expedient. Some things are not wise for us to do. Some things are not beneficial for us to do. There are many things that we were at liberty to say and do in Missouri that have proven to be offensive in Pennsylvania. So we don't do them for the sake of our brothers and sisters in this region and culture.

Why abstain? Well, because we have an extremely important mission and purpose. Some of our freedoms could go beyond merely offending another brother, and could actually cause them to stumble. Paul says that some of our freedoms could actually wound another brother’s conscience. Our freedoms can cause others, who are outside of the Faith, to continue in their ungodly practices. So, we have learned that some things are just not worth it. Why risk losing potential brothers and sisters or wounding current brothers and sisters?

What are we saying to you today? We're saying, please be very careful of what you practice in this controversial season. Allow the Holy Spirit to give you the 'yea and nay' about what you do. Don't question Him. Just obey Him.

We cannot, do not, must not, and will not dictate what goes on in your home. We’re not the December 25th police! God knows who is in your family and He knows the people who are part of your life. You might be connected to people with whom your response is based upon what we mentioned last week ….I have become, to those who are without law, as without law.

Most of today’s December 25th practices don’t cause people any internal conflict because they have no knowledge of the history. But if you are closely connected with Believing family members who have issues with these things, be very wise and sensitive to where they are in their conscience. They would require the response from last week's scripture .…I become to those who are under the law, as under the law.

Remember, a person’s beliefs are often deeply rooted in teachings, upbringing, personal interpretation, history and life-long understandings. It really is a matter of their conscience. Don’t force someone to violate their own conscience. It’s not simply a matter of whether THEY are right or wrong about December 25th. Don’t let your freedom cause your brother to stumble.

We're Building People.

Friday, November 29, 2024

The Holiday Challenge


It’s that time again. It’s the holiday season. It’s time for family, fellowship, food and.... controversy. 

Following Thanksgiving, people usually start to immediately prepare for December 25th. That's because the day after Thanksgiving is the "official" start of the holiday shopping season. 

In the midst of global political and economic upheaval, people are struggling, trying to find a way to still celebrate the holiday season. The entire year has been challenging and even as it wraps up, it still shows no sign of letting up on the relentless assault on our lives.

In years past, people of various faiths and religious beliefs have furiously battled over the appropriate way to deal with the holiday season. Even within Christianity there are debates about the way December 25th should be celebrated, or if it should be celebrated at all.

Every year, we take advantage of this annual holiday launch to start talking about December 25th and what it truly means in America today.

Did you know that millions of people believe December 25th should not be celebrated at all?

Perhaps you are one of them.

When you learn about some of its background and history you can understand why. Here are just a few reasons why it is not celebrated in many sectors of American society. You might have family or friends who feel this way:

1.) December 25th is just a capitalistic marketing ploy to manipulate the masses to spend money.

2.) There is no Christian church validation that Jesus was really born on December 25th.

3.) December 25th is a day on which Jews have been shamed, tortured and murdered.

4.) Many of the most popular December 25th customs – including trees, mistletoe, stockings and Santa Claus – are modern reincarnations of pagan rituals.

5.) Most December 25th customs evolved from pagan rituals and practices and, therefore, should never be observed.

We agree that these are all very strong arguments for not participating in the festivities of the holiday. Many preachers across America will accurately and systematically destroy any reason a Christian Believer could possibly be connected to modern-day rituals associated with this season of the year.

However, as you know, we have built a reputation in addressing controversial topics and we’re about to add more fuel to that fire.

Many Christians and religious people have taken the position that it is wrong to embrace things that were perverted and sinful in their origins. They feel we should never attempt to use these things for God. However, that's exactly what God did for us. Even though we were born in sin and shaped in iniquity, Christ died for us while we were still sinners. For anyone who receives Him, He gives them the power to become children of God. He changes us and sets us apart for His purpose. He didn't allow our sinful origins to keep us away from His divine purpose.

Now, as His children, we have the opportunity to take advantage of a season that has very negative origins and highly commercialized, money-making schemes. This is one of the special times in which our families can be exposed to the reality of Christ and the true reason why He came to earth.

We believe that we must do much more than just debate about all the reasons why we should not celebrate December 25th. Most people simply REACT to the negative aspects of this date. We believe that we need to provide Believers some Godly ways to RESPOND to this season.

Beginning this week, we want to give you Five Godly Responses to December 25th.

This week we’re presenting response #1: Become All Things to All Men.

In 1 Corinthians 9:18-23, Paul writes, "For though I am free from all men, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win the more; and to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews; to those who are under the law, as under the law, that I might win those who are under the law; to those who are without law, as without law (not being without law toward God, but under law toward Christ), that I might win those who are without law; to the weak I became as weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. Now this I do for the gospel’s sake, that I may be partaker of it with you."

We see the holiday season as the perfect opportunity to connect with many different kinds of people. This scripture does not mean that we become hypocrites and pretenders in order to indulge in secular practices. This is talking about connecting with people ON THEIR LEVEL of understanding. This is about identifying with them, the same way Christ identified with all of mankind.

Don't shun people because of what they believe or practice during this season. Don't isolate yourself from the office party or the family gathering because they may have traditions or rituals that are against your beliefs. Become all things to all men, so that you might by all means save some.

We're Building People.


Fruitful Living Review and Updates (November 2024)

 


Greetings Fruitful Life Family, Friends and Followers:

As you know, Fruitful Life is a community and ministry for all of us who are facing battles and struggles in mental, emotional, physical, financial, occupational, or relationship challenges; or simply working through life's many setbacks and side tracks. We are overcoming together as we turn to God and coming alongside others who will listen, offer support, and pray with us through the journey. 

The holiday season has officially begun.  To prepare for it, we brought back Licensed Professional Counselor and Master Life Coach Amethyst Roberson for another session. She called it “R.I.S.E - Navigating Grief During the Holidays.”  You can watch the session recording which has been provided in the link below.

Be sure to catch the podcast by Tiffany Mc Creight about Grief (see link below), and our annual series of blogs about Five Godly Responses to the Pagan Origins of December 25th. (See links below)

We’ve launched a new teaching series from the STEP Forward Life Institute. This teaching is about True Worship and it focuses on healing relationships in the Body of Christ. This series will be held every Wednesday in December and continue into the New Year until it is complete.


Here’s what’s happening now:


Midweek Connection Schedule 

Feel free to join our weekly Midweek Connection as we unite from coast to coast in the United States. 

Wednesdays at 7:00PM Eastern Time, USA

The Zoom link is https://us02web.zoom.us/j/972473313 

· Prayer Watch – intercession for families and communities 

· Spiritual Wellness Support 

· Bible Study through Biblical Counsel and Coaching


Five Godly Responses to the Pagan Origins of December 25th


1. The Holiday Challenge

https://urbanlifefamilypost.blogspot.com/2022/11/the-holiday-challenge_25.html 


2. A Matter of Conscience

https://urbanlifefamilypost.blogspot.com/2022/12/a-matter-of-conscience.html 


3. The Gift of Forgiveness 

https://urbanlifefamilypost.blogspot.com/2022/12/the-gift-of-forgiveness.html


4. Giving Is Already Our Lifestyle

https://urbanlifefamilypost.blogspot.com/2022/12/giving-is-already-our-lifestyle.html  


5. In Remembrance of Yeshua (Jesus) the Christ

https://urbanlifefamilypost.blogspot.com/2022/12/in-remembrance-of-christ.html 



Sunday Fruitful LIFE-Cast

Sunday Video Postings


The Role of Prayer in World War Two

https://vimeo.com/channels/onlineprayer/542995872  


A Company of Hidden Intercessors

https://vimeo.com/channels/onlineprayer/545831387


Seven National Calls to Prayer 

https://vimeo.com/channels/onlineprayer/540356647 


Expanding and Excelling in Exile 

https://vimeo.com/501647305 



Midweek Connection Archive

Recordings from Wednesday Online sessions


Protected and Prospering in Exile 

https://vimeo.com/1027134462 


Faithful With Little

https://vimeo.com/channels/spiritualwellness2024/1029503811 


True Doxology (Introduction) 

https://vimeo.com/channels/spiritualwellness2024/1031776998 



Friday Prayer Watch

Recordings from Prayer Watch Gatherings


Humbling Ourselves and Turning from Our Wicked Ways

https://youtu.be/dWD_ZmzUrcE?feature=shared 


Rebuild the Ancient Ruins

https://youtu.be/dU71FnSAu4Q?feature=shared 


Restore the Former Desolations

https://youtu.be/SzdZFqXdeHw?feature=shared 


Repair the Ruined Cities

https://vimeo.com/97065282 



Health and Wellness

Mental Health and Wellness Support

 

Good Grief – Navigating the Holidays In The Depths of Grief  (Tiffany Mc Creight)

https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-8kx5c-cac909 


R.I.S.E - Navigating Grief During the Holidays (Amethyst Roberson, MA, LPC, NCC, CMLC-T)

https://vimeo.com/1024956204 


Self-Care Essentials: R.I.S.E. (Amethyst Roberson, MA, LPC, NCC, CL)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/rise-self-care-essentials 


Christianity and Mental Health (Uniting Faith and Counseling)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/christianity-and-mental-health 


Beyond the Altar (Amethyst Roberson, MA, LPC, NCC, CMLC-T)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/beyond-the-altar 


Elephant in the Room: Mental Health and Wellness in the Church

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/elephant-in-the-room 



The Latest Blogs

Articles, News and Updates


Community Connections

https://www.chrisandcarolgreen.com/community



Books and Publications


Processed for Success

https://www.chrisandcarolgreen.com/processed-for-success 


Renovation in Hearts and Homes 

https://chrisandcarolgreen.blogspot.com/2024/06/chris-and-carol-green-revive.html



YouTube Video Channel

Fruitful Life’s Video Archives


Fruitful Life Media

https://www.youtube.com/@FruitfullifeNetwork 



Responding with CARE Podcasts

https://vimeo.com/channels/respondingwithcare 



STEP Forward Life Institute

"You don't have to light up the whole world. That will happen as each one of us brightens the part of the world where God has placed us.”


Personal Growth and Spiritual Maturity

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/personal-growth-maturity 


Fruitful Life Education Certificate Courses

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/certificate-courses 


Our Resource Library – Recommended Books and Courses

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/library 



Staying Connected

Join the Fruitful Life Learning Community’s  Social Media Support Group Pages

Both of these are wonderful spaces to keep up with teaching series, encouraging video clips, prayer postings, and staying up to date with what God is speaking and doing in other ministries around the country and all over the world.


1.) Spiritual Wellness Community

https://www.facebook.com/groups/fruitfullifecommunity 


2.) Hearts and Homes Community

https://fruitfullifenetwork.mn.co/



Support Chris and Carol and their Work at


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Thursday, October 31, 2024

Fruitful Living Review and Updates (October 2024)







Greetings Fruitful Life Family, Friends and Followers:

As you know, Fruitful Life is a community and ministry for all of us who are facing battles and struggles in mental, emotional, physical, financial, occupational, or relationship challenges; or simply working through life's many setbacks and side tracks. We are overcoming together as we turn to God and coming alongside others who will listen, offer support, and pray with us through the journey.

During the month of September,  Chris’ mother passed away and their family gathered in St. Louis, MO. on September 27 and celebrated her life and legacy. Afterwards, Chris and Carol took a sabbatical during the month of October for physical, mental and spiritual rest and recovery. They will continue to operate on a limited basis throughout the rest of the year.

We thank you again for your support and prayers.

As we prepare for the election, please know that we have been offering wisdom for navigating these critical moments in time for 20 years. We encourage you to explore Community Connections (The Latest Blogs), Renovations in Hearts and Homes (Books and Publications), and Personal Growth and Spiritual Maturity (STEP Forward Life Institute) in the links below.

In the meantime, we have already begun preparing for the holiday season. Part of that preparation included bringing back Licensed Professional Counselor and Master Life Coach Amethyst Roberson for another session. She called it “R.I.S.E - Navigating Grief During the Holidays.”  You can watch the session recording which has been provided in the links below as well.

Here’s what’s happening now: 


Midweek Connection Schedule

Feel free to join our weekly Midweek Connection as we unite from coast to coast in the United States.

Wednesdays at 7:00PM Eastern Time, USA

The Zoom link is https://us02web.zoom.us/j/972473313 

Prayer Watch – Corporate intercessory prayer

Spiritual Wellness Support Group

STEP Forward Life Institute –monthly Live Zoom Bible study and class


The Latest Blogs

Articles, News and Updates

Community Connections

https://www.chrisandcarolgreen.com/community

 

 

Books and Publications

Processed for Success

https://www.chrisandcarolgreen.com/processed-for-success


Renovation in Hearts and Homes

https://chrisandcarolgreen.blogspot.com/2024/06/chris-and-carol-green-revive.html


 

Health and Wellness

Mental Health and Wellness Support


NEW Content: R.I.S.E - Navigating Grief During the Holidays

https://vimeo.com/1024956204


Self-Care Essentials: R.I.S.E. (Amethyst Roberson, MA, LPC, NCC)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/rise-self-care-essentials


 Christianity and Mental Health (Uniting Faith and Counseling)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/christianity-and-mental-health


Beyond the Altar (Amethyst Roberson, MA, LPC, NCC)

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/beyond-the-altar


 Elephant in the Room: Mental Health and Wellness in the Church

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/elephant-in-the-room

  

 

STEP Forward Life Institute

....So you can Be who God called you to Be In Your Family and Community


STEP Forward Overview video

https://vimeo.com/968184743/0e26b86337


Personal Growth and Spiritual Maturity

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/personal-growth-maturity


 Fruitful Life Education Certificate Courses

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/certificate-courses


Our Resource Library – Recommended Books and Courses

https://www.fruitfullifelearningcommunity.org/library


 

Responding with CARE Podcasts

https://vimeo.com/channels/respondingwithcare

 

 

Staying Connected

Join the Fruitful Life Learning Community’s Facebook Group

This is a wonderful place to keep up with sermons and messages, prayer requests, and stay up to date with what God is speaking and doing in others around the country and all over the world.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/fruitfullifecommunity

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